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You weren’t put here to SUCK

You weren’t put on this earth to SUCK, you were put here to be SUCCESSFUL.

We are built to be great. We are given the tools to develop the Heart of a Competitor and achieve greatness. If you are reading this message, you believe that you have the ability to live with greatness. Having this ability to achieve greatness and be successful, you also have to believe that at any point, you can just plain out suck and be a failure. It is the struggle that we place in our minds in every endeavor we undertake. This is a battle every single day. Are we going to SUCK or are we going to move toward SUCCESS?

Throughout our experiences there have definitely been times where we have sucked. It is our job to take this SUCK and turn it into SUCCESS. We are one move away from success. This is the fight; this is the fire that burns within, to push forward to be successful. The Heart of a Competitor takes this SUCK and COMPETES with all of their focus on fighting to achieve their success. This might be your physical fight to get into shape or accomplish a physical goal or the mental and emotional fight to push through any resistance that is in place. The resistance can occur outside or inside of you. Any resistance that you experience is the filling of the fuel tank.

We must experience the SUCK to fill your fuel tank for SUCCESS. Successful people recycle the SUCK into a biofuel that fills their fuel tank. Greatness requires a fuel tank that is burning deep within our soul and propelling us forward. Your SUCK is fuel for your SUCCESS. Success is not a one-day effort; it is a continual process of pushing and pursuing. This is why you need a large fuel tank and those that are the best in the world have huge fuel tanks. Novak Djokovic’s fuel tank was filled with the SUCK of being forced to practice on a makeshift tennis court in an old swimming pool. (ESPN.com article) This SUCK was his fuel for SUCCESS.

You have not been put on this Earth to SUCK, but this SUCK is FUEL for your SUCCESS.

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Your Response Will Determine Your Success

My goal during the month of January is to share stories and examples of great competitors RESPONDING to adversity.  This week’s example about RESPONDING comes from the Texas Christian University Football team.  You can list a number of pieces of adversity the TCU Football team encountered at the Alamo Bowl, from their start starting quarterback getting suspended for the game to falling behind 31-0 in the second half, the Horned Frogs RESPONDED.

The RESPONSE to the adversity experienced was evident and put on display in the 2016 Alamo Bowl, but it was built and engrained in the Horned Frog Culture over the last 10 years.  In 2006, almost 10 years ago, Ivan Maisel, an ESPN Senior Writer, wrote a piece on the TCU Football program’s “Enthusiasm Station.” (Check out the ESPN.com article by clicking here.)  The “Enthusiasm Station” is built into a conditioning circuit the Horned Frogs complete early in the morning one day a week.  This “Enthusiasm Station” dictates how long they continue in their conditioning circuit.  Their RESPONSE in the “Enthusiasm Station” is based solely on their desire to push through and use the adversity in the conditioning circuit as an advantage.  Their enthusiasm was practiced, never left to chance, built for 10 years and displayed at the Alamo Bowl.

The enthusiastic RESPONSE was also evident in Quarterback Bram Kohlhausen.  Kohlhausen is a fifth-year senior who has been backing up the starter, a sophomore, the entire season.  He responded when given the opportunity, in what ends up being Kohlhausen’s only start in his entire college football career.  This only start occurred a little under two months after his father passed away in early November.  Kohlhausen RESPONDED by competing with the Heart of a Competitor engaging in the present moment with confidence.

This is just one example of a person and a team RESPONDING, however there are examples all around us of people and programs RESPONDING to adversity.  We do not control what is happening around us, but and this is a big BUT, we control our RESPONSE.  In 2016, I encourage you to RESPOND, build your masterpiece, and compete with the Heart of a Competitor.  Like Bram Kohlhausen, you may only get one opportunity and your RESPONSE will determine what is made of this one opportunity.